An Invitation To My Santa Barbara Retreat


shutterstock_173708015If you’re reading these words, it’s because you and I have a powerful connection through our work together, and because I so strongly believe in you.

I’m reaching out to a very select group of truly special women and inviting each of you to take our work together even further. I want to get you to a new and wonderful place in your life! I’m so excited about this next step, and I know you’re going to feel the same way.


Have you ever wondered why the most successful men aren’t choosing the most successful women to meet, marry and fall in love with? Do you wonder where all the men are that are “on your level,” and why you end up dating men who aren’t?

I’ve worked with some of the most amazing bachelors in the country, and I can tell you exactly why successful men and successful women don’t always connect when it comes to love. I can also tell you exactly how to find those high-quality, marriage minded men you are looking for and create that lasting connection. Finding love with the right man can be so much easier than you imagined, and I want to help you get there.

If you’ve noticed that you aren’t dating the men you want to date, or your career takes up most of your time and you find yourself neglecting your personal life, you’re going to want to join me in Santa Barbara for this small group retreat.


If you know anything about me (and of course, you do!), you’ll know that my strongest passion in life is getting women prepared for and genuinely open to love — so that when you meet the right man, everything clicks!

AB Woman at Retreat shutterstock_104860658In my work with accomplished, modern women, I see every day how challenging it is for someone who is successful and driven to devote unmeasured time to her heart and spirit. And when you do have that little, tiny bit of downtime…? It’s hard to find the space and support to comfortably focus on yourself.

Self-knowledge is at the core of your search for a fulfilling relationship, and yet, that personal transformation is so often left for another day.

So my question to you is: when will you make the time to listen to your heart, to examine your values, and consciously determine your wants and needs in love?

My Santa Barbara Retreat, September 19th – 21st, is your opportunity.

In this intimate and supportive setting, your focus will be on YOU.

And I’ll be right there with you to discuss ideas, challenges and questions that will come up while we’re there.


My weekend retreat is limited to an exclusive group of no more than six incredible women, many of whom have found that as their success has increased, they’ve outgrown old friends and support systems, and felt themselves yearning for new and deeper friendships, and longing for true connection with other women who share the same values and experiences. Each participant in my Santa Barbara Retreat is personally invited by me, to ensure a fun, healthy, positive and wonderfully enjoyable group dynamic.AB women toast shutterstock_192931658

We will gather at the enchanting Belmond El Encanto, Santa Barbara’s only Forbes Five Star Hotel, where we’ll be able to take advantage of the stunningly beautiful scenery and luxury accommodations. We’ll talk, relax, eat and laugh together!

You’ll establish a lifetime of new friendships, find that you’re not alone in your experiences, and discover how rewarding it is to share and learn from the other extraordinary women who participate in my coaching practice.

But the most important and unforgettable friendship forged this weekend will be the one you establish with yourself.

You will head back into the world transformed and refreshed, with more clarity and a better understanding of who you are, what you want, and what you deserve. Your heart will be lighter and open to love! (I’m already smiling, just thinking about how fantastic you’re going to feel!)


shutterstock_91951274  FRIDAY, SEPTEMBER 19

4:00 pm Friday afternoon check-in, alone time
6:00 pm Join April for a cocktail in the lobby bar
7:00 pm Friday group dinner on terrace


07:30 am Saturday morning yoga w/ instructor provided by spa
08:30 am Saturday group breakfast
10:00 am Morning private coaching sessions/alone time
Lunchtime – Saturday luncheon (on own via resort credit)
02:00 pm Afternoon private coaching sessions/alone time
07:00 pm Saturday group dinner on terrace w/ ocean view
08:30 pm Desserts and Group Session on Oak Tree Patio in April’s Suite


08:00 April group session w/ light continental breakfast
11:45 Sunday brunch on covered terrace
01:30 Afternoon coaching sessions/alone time


Registration for my Santa Barbara Retreat is $4300, and is fully inclusive. Your registration fee covers the following:

  • Two nights luxury accommodations at Belmond El Encanto, Santa Barbara’s only five-star resort
  • Six delicious and inspired California Coastal meals, artfully prepared by Executive Chef Leo Andres Ayala
  • A peaceful and refreshing Saturday morning yoga session
  • Two intensive coaching workshops in which you will design a love map and learn to date and emotionally connect with high-quality, relationship ready men
  • A private 45-minute coaching session in which I will personally listen and advise you on an easier way to finding the love relationship you want in your life
  • Candid conversations about men, sex, love, relationships and marriage
  • A renewed mindset and perception of yourself
  • An hour-long follow-up personal coaching call after the retreat
  • Plus plenty of downtime for reflection, relaxing, swimming and spa visits.

Your registration fee may be paid in full at the time of registration, or divided into up to three monthly installments.


I’ve developed a simple questionnaire that will afford me a renewed sense of where you are right now in your relationship journey, tell me what you think your focus should be for the retreat, and help me ensure that this will be an exceptional experience for you!  Remember, this is designed to be tailored to you, so I encourage you to ask for what you need.

To inquire about registration, email to reach Stacy Bond, who’s coordinating the retreat and would be delighted to forward the questions to you! Once we have your response, we’ll be in touch to arrange your payment, and to allow you to select your preferred coaching times, as well as advance book any spa services you plan to take advantage of during your stay.


Come and join me for this freeing and calming retreat in beautiful Santa Barbara. You’ll gain so much more than just the rejuvenation and serenity you’ve been longing for. You’ll be forever transformed by this incredible opportunity to nourish your inner self and to completely renew your approach to your love life!