Sparks! with April Beyer

You are closer than you think.

Dating Advice

Go up and say “Hello” for goodness sake!


With the advent of dating apps, people are not willing to “take the risk” and approach someone they find attractive anymore. The fact that technology has not only changed our behavior but also our natural instincts is crazy to me!
Potential partners are ALL AROUND YOU. Look up from your phone, make eye contact, and smile. See what happens. If your smile is returned, go over and introduce yourself. This goes for both men and women. What’s the worst that can happen? They’re already in a relationship. They aren’t interesting. They’re rude. They say no. None of those things have anything to do with you.

The truth is, the more people you speak to, the more likely you are to discover a connection with someone. So many women I meet think it’s a man’s job to say hello, but men appreciate a woman who appears open and friendly.

That being said, men, go up and say hello!

You have nothing to lose and only everything to gain.

Next time you’re out, try to talk to a few people you see as you go about your routine. It can be 30 seconds of your time but try to make connections every and anywhere, you never know when love will strike.

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