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Dating Advice

How to figure out if your values align when you first start dating


One of the most challenging parts of dating new people is figuring out if your values align. This is one of the main reasons I created LEVEL: to match you based on what’s most important to you.

Values aren’t something you see or feel. They’re rooted in your background and have developed into something you hold sacred in yourself and appreciate in your partner. They are the foundation of a solid relationship, so you should try to find out what your potenital partner’s values are in the first few dates.

Use some of these questions to see if they will share not only their experience but also let you understand some of their values

What do you love most about your job?

What motivates you every day?

Do you see yourself in the same (position, city, etc.) in 5 years?

What would you do every day if you could do anything?

It’s time to start taking a closer and deeper look at the people you’re meeting. These questions may seem light, but if you ask from a place of genuine sincerity, you’ll start to make more meaningful connections out there.

Remember these are just to get you started, listen to their answers and continue to ask with questions with a deeper intent.

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