You should update your dating life.
Whether you’ve been single for what seems like an eternity, dating random people that you have no connection with, or have been in the wrong relationship for too long, now is the time to make some updates and changes to your dating life. No more waiting around and simply hoping things will get better. 8 […]
A good reason to ALWAYS be on your best behavior.
It’s vital you keep your dating reputation squeaky clean. The dating world (and the city you live in) is smaller than you think. Word travels fast and it spreads like wildfire. Women share everything. They drill down to the most microscopic details with their girlfriends during their post date feedback. A woman will praise you, […]
Is online dating worth your time?
Most of you have gone online or to apps either because “everyone is doing it” or as a last resort. You haven’t met anyone yet and you’ve heard several success stories that inspired you to give it a shot. I applaud your motivation to take control of your dating life. But I advise you to […]
What makes you a “catch?”
It’s simple. It’s about how you MAKE someone feel. It’s not about your looks, your body, the money you make, the car you drive, the places you’ve traveled or your education and career. There is no such thing as “A Catch” across the board. If beauty and brains were everything, then there wouldn’t be any […]
Target your mindset, not your relationship status.
Whether you’ve been dating for years or you’re just starting to get back out there, dating can be a daunting experience filled with ups and a few too many downs. While you may be tired of sitting at the kids’ table, stuck searching for a plus one, here are 5 tips to keep your mind […]
The Rules of Dating Have Changed.
Your mother’s list of charming advice is still relevant, but we need to add onto it. Texting, chasing, photos, social media, ghosting, timelines, and agendas all come into play now. How do you handle them and get the result you want instead of the frustration you dread? Respond. When you don’t know what to do, […]
Want chemistry on your date? Create it!
Chemistry has nothing to do with how much two people have in common or how physically appealing they are to the other person. A great date has two main ingredients: physical and emotional chemistry. If you’re not creating emotional chemistry on a date, you’re not dating, you’re just exchanging information. Chemistry is an active process […]
Why do men want to date younger women?
We all have a superficial wish list in a partner, but nothing superficial should ever get in the way of romance. That’s why I always tell my clients, “Throw away your list.” We need to marry your wants with your needs, both of which are based on your values, not looks or age. My advice […]
Men, go up and say “Hello” for goodness sake!
With the advent of dating apps, men are not willing to “take the risk” and approach women they find attractive anymore. The fact that technology has not only changed your behavior but also your natural instincts is crazy to me! Potential partners are all around you. Look up from your phone, make eye contact, and […]
The Healthy Habit Most Likely to Help You Find Love
I just returned from the most incredible weekend in Santa Barbara. I have to say, I’m still reeling from the high. I hosted a women’s retreat at the gorgeous Belmond El Encanto for a very special group of brilliant, successful women — all of whom came together to learn, laugh, cry, release old thoughts and […]
