Why “Who Pays for the First Date?” is a Question in 2014
An article from The Atlantic making the rounds on social media for the last few weeks raises the question: It’s 2014: Why Are Men Still Paying for First Dates? The article refers to several studies, including one released last month that found about 77 percent of people in straight relationships believe men should pay the […]
The Healthy Habit Most Likely to Help You Find Love
I just returned from the most incredible weekend in Santa Barbara. I have to say, I’m still reeling from the high. I hosted a women’s retreat at the gorgeous Belmond El Encanto for a very special group of brilliant, successful women — all of whom came together to learn, laugh, cry, release old thoughts and […]
The Secret to Going from Dating to a Relationship
Happy Friday! I have something really special to share with you! I was a guest on my dear friend Keri Murphy’s program, Inspired Living. And in the interview, I share some juicy information about men and dating! What Inspires a Man to Keep Seeing You? Do you ever wonder what it is that allows certain […]
How to Find Inspiration in Imperfection
Earlier this month I spoke at The Oregon Women’s Conference. Turns out, I went to inspire and ended up being the one who was truly inspired. I was honored to share the stage with the brilliant Lisa Nichols, Michelle Patterson and Endyia Kinney-Sterns of OWN Network, just to name a few. Although we all had […]
Why You Should Consider a Friendship Audit
At a recent event, I spoke about a topic that’s really touched a nerve with women. Curious to see if this rings a bell for you, as well. I’m guessing the responses will be mixed, so please share your thoughts below! As women, we learn early in life that to preserve our heart and sanity, […]
What to Look For if You Really Want to Find Love Online
Can you meet a truly great guy on an online dating site? This may seem like a question with an obvious answer. Of course, right? There have to be great guys out there looking, just like you are. And yet you — and every other single gal you know — complains about the off-putting challenges […]
Are You Outsourcing Your Joy?
As you know if you’re a regular reader of Sparks!, I run a business with two distinct brands. For almost two decades I’ve run an established, high-end matchmaking practice, and in recent years I’ve launched a women’s brand, under which I offer private relationship coaching, while also providing expert dating advice to women around the […]
“Spring Cleaning” Your Love Life in Five Simple Steps
If you’re anything like me, you love this time of year. Not just because of the longer days and the budding greenery, but because of the opportunity to renew anything and everything about your life that may need an overhaul. And that includes your love life! Who doesn’t love a fresh start? Gratitude and Forgiveness […]
Letting Love Find You
Today is International Women’s Day, “a global day celebrating the economic, political and social achievements of women past, present and future.” In China, Russia, Vietnam, Bulgaria, and other scattered locales, International Women’s Day is a national holiday. The day was originally established in 1911, to honor the work of those who fought for women’s right […]
A Compelling Secret About How Men Fall In Love
Today’s Friday Takeaway is short, and sweet. I’m going to share a little insight about the hearts of men: Men fall in love faster than women. I know, I know. Everyone thinks women are the first to fall in love. After all, we’re supposedly the more romantic of the species, right? (That’s actually not true […]
