How to Get the Best Dating Advice, Part Two

This week I got some fantastic news from Paris: a couple I introduced and guided as their Coach, Advisor and Matchmaker are tying the knot! He’s an accomplished scientist and she’s an extremely successful young doctor.  I couldn’t be happier for them, and I know they will have a beautiful life together. This is my […]

How to Get the Best Dating Advice, Part One

The dating industry is a billion dollar industry. Everywhere you look, whether in real life or online, there are hundreds of dating coaches all over the country telling you they know love and they’re going to show you how to get it. Some even go as far as to tell you they can guarantee that […]

The Difference Between Being Friendly and Creating a Connection

A girlfriend of mine and I recently attended a charity gala. I was her wing-woman, so to speak. As we mingled among a group enjoying the breeze near the open balcony, my wonderful friend, who is attractive, interesting and usually a little bit shy, was doing a great job of being more outgoing than she’s […]

The Most Powerful Thing You Can Do to Ensure a Great Love Life in 2014

Can you believe we’ve been together an entire year? It’s been twelve months since I launched my blog Sparks! and I want you to know that I’ve loved every single minute of interacting with all of you! After almost a thousand comments from you and almost one-hundred-thousand shares, I’m convinced that every day I’m providing […]

Two Simple Ways to Get Relationship Ready Before The Holidays Approach!

It’s that time of year when not only are we busier at work than ever, but our personal lives are about to get busier as well! So many really wonderful women I know are juggling multiple commitments, and let’s face it, part of being successful and happy is being well-rounded. It’s only natural that we […]

Are You Socially Selfish?

I’m a reformed shy girl. Anyone who knows me or has met me would be surprised to hear this. After all, I’m outgoing and have a career that puts me in the public eye as a female motivational speaker. Certainly a shy person would never be able to speak on live TV, the radio, or […]

How Soon is Too Soon to Say “Yes” to Sex?

In last week’s Friday Takeaway, I talked about exclusivity and whether or not you should bring it up with a man you’re dating. If you didn’t catch that post, please check it out before reading this one. Sometimes the conversation about sex (or the act itself) is far easier and more natural than the discussion […]

How Soon is Too Soon to Talk About Exclusivity?

You’ve been dating a guy for a few weeks and already you can feel yourself putting all of your time, focus and energy on him. It’s an exciting time, the chemistry is soaring and the topic of sex will soon be on the table. You’d love to know whether or not the relationship is ready […]

How Soon Is too Soon to Introduce Him to Your Friends and Family?

You’ve met a great guy and things seem to be going well. You can’t wait to show him off and introduce him to your friends and family. But when is the best time to do that? What will be the impact on your burgeoning relationship? Will he like your friends and love your family? Will […]

How Soon Is Too Soon to Pay On a Date?

You’re career is going really well, you’re independent, happy, and you know how to take care of yourself. But what does that mean when it comes to dating? Everyone seems to follow different rules. It can be confusing when you’re unsure about dating protocol (and whether there’s even a protocol to begin with). So this […]