He’s Still on OKCupid? He Dates? You Date. Simple.
It breaks my heart when women don’t listen to their intuition, especially when it’s telling them something isn’t right. That’s what’s happening with Lisa. I’ve been dating the same man for two months. We only see each other once a week, and he’s still on Match.com. He says he wants to take it slow and […]
Can You Forget Your Ex and Move On?
We all have those times when we have trouble letting go of a relationship that has run its course, and Emilia is struggling with that situation right now. My advice to her might surprise you. I broke up with my boyfriend in October last year and I think I still love him. I’ve tried to […]
Do You “Just Know” When You’ve Met the One?
So many times we hear men or women say they “just knew” when they met “the one.” That’s what Sarah’s question is about today: Thank you for all of your wonderful advice and encouragement. Your warmth, authenticity, and intelligence are inspiring. I feel so much more grounded and comfortable in the presence of men after […]
What If You Don’t Share The Same Interests?
There’s not a woman or man who hasn’t questioned their relationship at one point or another. It’s especially normal to assess whether or not you’re in the right relationship when you first start dating. After all, it’s your love life. Is anything more important? I just received this great question from Leslie: I love your […]
Keep Meeting Emotionally Unavailable Men? Here’s Why
It’s not always easy to accept, but we each attract exactly who and what we’re ready for at any given time in our lives. If you aren’t getting what you want from the men you’ve been dating, my advice to Ginell will resonate with you. Here’s her question: Since my divorce 3 years ago I’ve […]
When You Earn More Than He Does
What happens when you meet a man who has everything you’re looking for — but just one thing is missing: he’s not in your income bracket? Maybe he’s a cute teacher and you’re on a partner track. Or maybe he’s an emerging entrepreneur who’s still getting established, while you’ve already become a homeowner. How do […]
Are Men Just In It for the Thrill of the Chase?
Today’s letter comes from Wendy, who has been grappling with a question that’s been driving women crazy since the dawn of time. Wendy writes: Why are men so fickle? I recently met a great guy who seemed really into me. We went out a few times, and I thought something great could be developing. But […]
Why Do We Want What We Can’t Have?
What happens when you have great chemistry with a man who neglects to mention he’s married? Do you still want him? Why? That’s what Kim wants to know. April, I need your advice: what happens when a man contacts me after seven years and wants to get close. We used to work at the same […]
4 Ways to Keep the Excitement in Love from Fading
After the passion and excitement at the start of a relationship begin to level off, should you worry about whether the relationship has run its course? We all love the thrill of those first months in a new romance. Kacey wants to know how to ignite that again in her own relationship. “How can I […]
Are You the One Making All the Moves?
One of the most common questions I get from women is why so many men seem to be allowing women to do the courting. If you’re in your 20s and 30s, you might even be accustomed to taking the lead. It’s just the way things are right now. But let’s take a look at how […]
