Should You Delay Sex With A Guy You’re Really Into?
Throughout history there have been so many rules forced upon women about this. Myths abound about “how soon is too soon.” Luckily, we live in a time when we can decide for ourselves how to react when we find someone who ignites passion in us! But does it make a difference to the long-term potential […]
Financial Honesty & Love: When to Talk Money With Your Honey
It’s the time of the year when finances are on everyone’s mind. Luckily, my husband is a financial wizard, so I can check in with him when I need input or expertise. Even so, tax time? Definitely not my favorite time of year! Love and money aren’t always easy to talk about in the same […]
Am I Being Put In The Friend Zone?
We all work hard. We have jobs, careers and lives that are challenging. Your relationship should be a warm, cozy sweater that wraps around you with care and comfort. But is it okay if you feel completely comfortable from the very beginning? And what if the man you’re dating feels immediately comfortable? Melissa wants to […]
The Truth You Don’t Want to Hear: Why You Aren’t Finding Love
Matchmaking is a nerve-wracking job! I never tell anyone this, because we all want our public image to be seamless, and the world to think we’ve got everything under control, right? Here’s the problem with not sharing our truth or “real” selves: when no one knows what your needs are, no one shows up to […]
Who You’ve Become Isn’t All That You Are. There’s a Difference.
I love this time in history. Women are so empowered and really leading incredible lives. Every day I sit down with women for our intimate conversations and I’m often blown away by how much they have going for them. Most of the time I finish a meeting thinking, “Wow. I’m super busy and I’m not […]
Should I Settle For An All-Right Guy?
We all know that navigating the currents of the dating pool isn’t easy. Sometimes, no matter how clear we try to keep things, the waters get murky. We start out feeling optimistic about all the fabulous, available men we’re going to meet, and after a few months of non-starters, we begin to feel less sure […]
When is a Divorced Man Ready For a New Love?
Just about anyone we date is going to have some kind of relationship history, no one is a blank slate. But, as Mary wants to know, how does a man’s recent divorce figure into your dating picture? I’ve been dating a man who’s been divorced for one year and has two children from his previous […]
Which Should Come First — a Career or Love?
We know that more people are spending their twenties and even early thirties “exploring their options,” both romantically and career-wise, and delaying marriage until later in life than at any other time in history. One result of this trend is that many women tend to have firmly established careers by the time they get serious […]
Your 30s Are the Perfect Time To Prepare for Love
Every so often an article comes out suggesting women are going to have a hard time finding a mate after they reach a certain event in their lives, or become a certain age. I’m here to tell you that just isn’t the case. Stephanie writes: Is it true that men like younger women, and that […]
Are You Competing With Other Women?
This week’s question is one I’ve wanted to address for a long time. I’m so happy Karen took the time to write so I can share this with all of you here. April, surely you have something for a middle-aged, young and sexy, black woman. It seems I am competing with young white women and […]
